Memorial Services
In our tradition of Buddhism, remembering and honoring those close to us after their passing is very important. Gathering with a sense of gratitude in honor of our deceased loved ones ensures we keep them in our hearts while also remembering that we are all interconnected.
This also gives us reason to gather with those who we don’t get to see on a regular basis, reinforcing our ties with family members and friends. One way we do this is through memorial services or “Hoji” (Dharma affair) at incremental dates following a loved one’s passing. The Hoji are a system of private memorial observances for family members. Extended family members, and sometimes close friends, will gather at the temple or at home in memory of a deceased loved one.
These are opportunities to reflect on how our lives are related to our loved one who passed away. An important effect of this custom has been the reinforcing of family ties with members beyond one’s immediate family. This gives us a sense of continuity from generation to generation.
Some of these dates are:
The date of passing
49th day service
100th day service
1st year memorial
3rd year memorial
7th year memorial
13th year memorial
17th year memorial
25th year memorial
33rd year memorial
50th year memorial
100th year memorial
After this, memorials are held every 50 years as a way of keeping those who have passed in our hearts while sharing histories and stories with their descendants
Other Personal Services Offered at the Temple
Buddhist Wedding Ceremonies
Home and Hospital Visitations
Funerals and Pillow Services